Equestrian Therapy has started back up! I'm really surprised at how quickly he adjusted to being back in the saddle.
On his first ride, he was placed on the horse backwards. It made him work a bit harder considering he didn't have the reigns, but he great! Lasted 45 minutes.
The second ride, we put him on the correct way, and he never had an issue with falling. Lasted the entire hour!
Now, he's a pro :)
We are really crossing fingers and saying prayers that this (coupled with his other therapies) helps him stay off the operating room table for hip surgery. Ugh! I hate having a possible surgery linger over our heads.
I finally stopped long enough last night to think about what is really going on in my life - the hard stuff. Reality...my mom has cancer. Ugh, I hate that word, and seeing it written makes me want to burst into tears.
Our family is being tested. Our faith is strong. I'm not fond of His plan right now, but I can't see the entire picture either. He will show us the path, and we will lean on Him every step of the way.
My mom is in great spirits, and everything we know, as of now, seems positive. She is seeing a great team of doctors and is in the process of figuring out the best plan of treatment. While she and my dad are away, my sister and I are holding the café down.
It been quite the adjustment for me, but I'm finally getting it ;) I never really knew of the behind the scenes work that goes on. Whew!!
I know, that through all of this, my family will come out stronger than ever. We may have days filled with tears. .others may be filled with smiles. .either way, God will lead us through this.
Never in my wildest dreams did I think Braylon would enjoy going to school. He only went 2 days this week, but both were a complete success!!
I love that he is proving me wrong. Honestly, I was so nervous as this day approached. I'm talking about the child who threw fits when I would drop him off at his grandparents' house. .the one who would STOP breathing when I would put him in his stander. .let's face it, a total momma's boy.
I'm excited for the weeks to come and to see him progress. The time apart is very refreshing. . a little awkward at first. As ready as I was for him to start school, the realization that I don't have anymore babies at home hit me. When Carson started pre-k, I was big and pregnant with Bray. It's a new phase of life for all of us.
Bray - time to spread those wings a little more. We are so proud of the little boy you are becoming and look forward to the many adventures you have in store. Have fun and don't reveal all your secrets at once ;)
Come Wednesday, Braylon will be starting school! We are starting him out as a part timer, and when he turns 4, we'll put him in full time.
Ready or not!
This will be quite the adjustment for both of us. I will no longer have any babies at home with me, and he will be in a class with quite a few other kiddos.
The IEP went well..most everyone in the meeting knows us from having Carson, and I couldn't be more excited for the teacher/para combo we have. Although, sometimes, I want to look at them and say, REALLY?!
I had prepared myself for the comment, "he needs to be off the bottle." And, in true fashion, it was mentioned. I took a breath and stated that he was on the right track and we are approaching this a little different than we did for Carson.
Carson lost the ability to suck when transitioning from the bottle to the spoon. That led us to having a G-tube placed for H20 and added therapy to find a cup he could use. He went from a cut-out cup to, now, having the honey bear. We only had the G-tube for 1 year, but if you've had one, you know about the extra stuff. We are trying to avoid this issue with Bray.
It would be so nice if all of these transitions went as smoothly as they do in the books the therapists read, BUT it doesn't. I don't know... maybe they forget that we are also dealing with many other issues, a strong willed personality, and a child who has constant ants in his pants.
With that said. .I'm thankful for the team Bray has. Like it or not, he's on the bottle (for now), and we will continue to work on it. I'm hoping and confident he will hit the goals we made for him, and that he will make lots of friends.
I knew 1st grade was going to be a day by day thing, and that we would have to adjust Carson's schedule accordingly. We actually did just that on the 2nd day of school. Carson was the most excited about the change. .and that's what counts :)
So, like always for Parent/teacher night, you find out the new changes for that school year, meet everybody, then head to your child's classroom to really get to know the teacher. Well, Carson isn't with the actual 1st grade teacher for too long out of the day. This is the first year C has moved up and we didn't know who the teacher would be.
So, we went to the first grade class, sat in their little desks and was able to view some of the material they would be learning throughout the year. In that instance, Carson's delay hit me. He's out of the 'center time' and on to the big leagues. I looked at my husband, and could tell he saw it too.
I'm pretty sure my mind shut off somewhere in the short presentation. Honestly, I felt like we didn't belong (and, no, they didn't make me feel that way...the seasoned teachers know who C is and have seen his accomplishments). We introduced ourselves to his actual teacher, and just let her know that I would help in any way.
As soon as we left, my husband said he didn't want to go to one of those again - I was thinking the same thing. We shall see.
I can say that we ended the night on a good note - date night! We had to remind ourselves that something will remind of us our kid's delays everyday..we have to look past it and remind ourselves of how far they have come.